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Day in the life

Day In The Life is such a beautiful idea. It is the perfect way to capture what your life is. I know the saying for our generation is that older generations told us nothing, but we told them everything. But I’m calling not true. Our days are filled with routine that is so ingrained in us that we forget to record it. It’s like trying to remind yourself to breath every breathe, but you don’t have to, you just do it and you think this is insignificant and doesn’t deserve attention. But it does. Every season is different and unique. Our days are beautiful and worth our attention. Our routines are who we are at our core and should be captured and shared.

I have a beautiful new routine that is a gift. A gift of years of hard work and hope paying off. A gift of a new, fresh start. A gift of a new life. If you look back at almost exactly one year ago, the difference in these two days are shockingly different. Both beautiful, yet two worlds apart.

This is my new, every day.

A Day In The Life
October 19th, 2017

8:52am
A slow wake up to our new life of eternal sunshine.

9:09am
Breakfast with my love.

9:54am
Time to feed my soul.

10:47am
Messy overwhelm.

11:08am
Podcasts + cleaning. Clear desk, clear mind.

12:08pm
Pushing paint, creating, learning, exploring, making first.

1:06pm
Lunch with my BFFL’s.

2:50pm
Art, teaching, sharing, growing. Instagram is a large part of my community and day.

3:19pm
Work. Emails, writing, creating, customer service, meetings, ideas, work.

4:58pm
Break time. Getting ready for a night out. Getting dressed is now an event and not always part of my day.

5:59pm
Still working. Finishing the day, more ideas than time.

7:12pm
Sushi with friends. Laughter, story telling, sharing, loving.

9:10pm
Tea and dessert. Exploring new places and foods. Being with friends is the best part of the day.

10:29pm
Bed + movie.

Routine is a beautiful and dangerous thing. It can trap us and liberate us. Routine + Ritual. These are the days.

1 Month

The theme of this move is: This ain’t my first rodeo.

Moving, re-assimilating, relearning everything you know, somehow gets easier every time you do it. The change becomes a constant flow in your days and your brain finds a settled peace in it. The unpredictable becomes predictable and is your new baseline and comfort level.

We’ve been here in the UAE for a month now. With this move, we knew what to expect and were ready to dive in headfirst, no treading water and getting choked up. Within minutes of arriving we had phones, within days we had a car. Every expat knows that those two things can make or break your ability to survive and flourish in a new home.

(Our apartment cul-de-sac)

We wasted no time in getting rid of furniture, bedding and random (but very kindly provided to us) junk we didn’t need or love and went bankrupt at Ikea in week one, because the rule is: if you don’t buy it now, every week that goes past you will think, I can just live with this and what if we leave, it will be a waste at this point. So we stick with the motto of: go buy it now. Don’t wait for comfort to find you, you have to create it on your own.

Within 2 weeks our living room was decorated, we had a front bench with storage and a bag hanging system. There is art in the hallway. Plants in every corner. New bedding. The kitchen has plenty of Tupperware and my office was fully functioning.

We’re home. We know where the grocery store is. We’ve been to the pool and have called the plumber 3 times so he can teach us how to flush a toilet (totally real). We’ve cooked dinners, made crafts and spilled things. We’ve returned stuff that didn’t work or we didn’t know. Plants have already died (d*mn you root rot) and we’ve hosted events.

Jen Hatmaker talks about decorating your home in her book Of Mess and Moxie because it’s not materialistic, but its a way of serving others. I don’t say all this to convince you of my decorating skills, but because we have a purpose for it. To open our home as a safe haven, a place of laughter, celebration and good food. That’s all we really care about in this life. Loving the people around us.

Expats know how to make friends. They understand the importance of community and that it needs to happen right away. We’ve been to parties, dinners, play readings, birthday celebrations, pool dates, juice runs, city explorations and more, all in a month. Relationships are what ground us in a place and we know that the sooner we are grounded, the more we are able to thrive.

A few other notable accomplishments from this month: 

We’ve begun the membership process at a local church.

I’ve started teaching Zumba at the on campus gym.

I’m guest lecturer in a design class.

We have bikes and ride all over campus.

We have found a favorite coffee shop and brunch cafe.

We’ve left the country on a visa run.

We’ve snuck into a fancy resort to use THE fanciest pool by beach and gotten caught immediately.

We’ve seen lots of camels just chilling by the road.

All this to say, we are here and doing well. 

Now for some visuals, but don’t worry I know I owe you lots of posts detailing and explaining things in so much more detail.

Below is a bit of campus, that is beyond gorgeous and we are so grateful we live here and can ride our bikes to a full cafeteria/food court, grocery store, salon, art store and library.

The on campus Mosque.

Oh Professor Hooper, stop being so cute. Also, THE cutest thing: students stopping him on campus to say ‘Hi Professor!’. Im all emoji heart eyes face…